One of my friends and mentors passed this past week. He was one of those people that whenever we had a casual conversation, I would learn something.
Dick was a retired police officer and an experienced volunteer firefighter. It was from him that I learned much of what I know about how fires behave in buildings and also what extinguishes them. This has served me well as an architect over the last several years. I’m not sure if Dick realized that I was learning anything from him or that I consider him a mentor. It was more about making friendly conversation about topics in which he had a wealth of knowledge and interest. I will sorely miss the warmth and fellowship of our visits.
With that said, this is very much a reminder that members of my generation need to be focused on transferring the knowledge we have amassed over a lifetime to younger people. Being a mentor involves sharing our knowledge or, better still, sharing the means to acquire the necessary knowledge. This may be a simple matter of answering a well placed question, or being there (hanging out) when the protégé isn’t aware that a question needs to be asked.
By all means, we should take a younger colleague under our wing and share the resources we have developed over the years. I don’t need to be in younger folks’ shoes. I was there once. I am eternally grateful to Dick – and Tom, Sandy, Roxanne, and Sam. I have learned so much from these five people, that I would not be the architect I am today without their willingness to mentor me. It is my intent to pass it on to whoever is willing to listen.
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